Tender Facets
The cartilaginous underbelly of the patella features 'facets', i.e. angled surfaces. If the doctor palpates (feels) these facets by curling his fingers around the patella, this should not be painful.
This manoeuvere, on the other hand, is painful in patients whose patellae are poorly aligned.
[Reprinted with permission, The Adult Knee, Chapters 59-60, Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2003.]

The combination of tilt and tender facets is, in my opinion, evidence that part of the problem is coming from the knee cap. It's that simple.
Tenderness of the lateral facet in combination with patellar tilt should suggest to the doctor that the tilt is of clinical significance (many patients have tilt that is asymptomatic).
With your leg straight see if you can feel where the joint line is a few centimeters below the bottom of the knee cap. Refer to the illustrations to help you. Bend and straighten while you 'palpate'. See if you can feel the two rounded 'knuckle' ends (the 'condyles') of the femur just above the joint line. Palpate as far as you can the under-surface of the knee cap. Any tenderness?